A 68-year-old client is admitted to an inpatient hospice unit with end-stage chronic obstructive pulmonary disease. The client's adult child, who lives in another country and has not visited in five years, arrives at the facility. Within minutes, the adult child begins shouting in the hallway, stating, 'You are all completely neglecting my parent! The bed linens are wrinkled, the oxygen tubing is twisted, and none of you have any idea how to provide proper care!' The nurse recognizes this behavior as a defense mechanism utilized to cope with overwhelming anticipatory grief. Which of the following is the most therapeutic nursing response?
- AWhy are you yelling at the staff when we have been working diligently to keep your parent comfortable?
- BI understand you may be feeling guilty about being away for so long, but shouting at the staff is not acceptable.
- It sounds like you are very worried about your parent's comfort. Let us step into a quiet room so we can discuss your concerns together.Answer
- DPlease do not worry; I can assure you that our hospice team is highly trained and providing excellent care.
Answer
The most therapeutic response is to state, 'It sounds like you are very worried about your parent's comfort. Let us step into a quiet room so we can discuss your concerns together.'
This response is correct because it utilizes the therapeutic techniques of reflection and offering self. By stating 'It sounds like you are very worried,' the nurse addresses the true underlying emotion driving the displacement (fear and grief) rather than arguing about the surface-level false accusations. Moving to a quiet room removes the highly anxious individual from the hallway audience, which helps de-escalate the immediate anger, protects the unit milieu, and provides a safe space for the family member to process their emotional distress.
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Therapeutic Communication in Response to Displacement and Maladaptive Coping
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