While providing care on a pediatric oncology unit, a practical nurse encounters a parent whose adolescent child recently received a terminal prognosis. The parent is visibly distressed and states, "Last week I felt like I was starting to accept this, but today I am just furious at everyone on the medical team. I must be doing this grieving process wrong." Which response by the practical nurse is the most therapeutic?
- Grief does not follow a strict, step-by-step timeline; it is completely expected to move back and forth between different emotions.Cevap
- BYou have temporarily regressed to the anger stage, which means we should discuss what caused this setback.
- CWhy do you think your feelings changed from acceptance to anger so suddenly today?
- DIt is normal to feel angry, but it is best to focus your energy on making these last weeks peaceful for your child.
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The most therapeutic response is to inform the parent that grief does not follow a strict, step-by-step timeline and that moving back and forth between different emotions is completely expected.
The correct response directly addresses the parent's fear of 'doing this wrong' by normalizing their experience. It provides accurate, factual reassurance that the grieving process is not a linear timeline and that oscillating between emotions like acceptance and anger is a completely expected part of anticipatory grief.
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Anticipatory Grief and Non-Linear Grief Models