A practical nurse (PN) is participating in a family meeting for a 16-year-old client whose parent died unexpectedly 6 months ago. The surviving parent expresses intense frustration, stating, "My child hasn't shed a single tear over the death. Instead, they are constantly irritable, getting into fights at school, and complaining of frequent headaches." Which response by the PN is most appropriate?
- AIt appears your child is stuck in the denial stage, as they must cry and express sadness to move forward.
- BThese behaviors are typical signs of adolescent rebellion and are likely unrelated to the loss of their parent.
- Adolescents often process loss differently than adults, frequently expressing their grief through physical symptoms and irritability.Answer
- DThis must be stressful. You should insist they talk about their feelings every day until the headaches resolve.
Answer
The response explaining that adolescents frequently express grief through physical symptoms and irritability.
Grief manifests differently across developmental stages. Adolescents often express grief through somatic complaints (like headaches or stomach aches), irritability, anger, and acting-out behaviors rather than overt crying or verbalizing sadness. Educating the parent about these developmental differences is highly therapeutic; it validates the parent's concern while providing crucial context for the adolescent's behavior without pathologizing a normal developmental grief response.
Step-by-Step Solution
Key Concept
Developmental Manifestations of Grief in Adolescents
Estimated Time:1m 30s